Thinking About Feelings

I'm led by Dionysian impulse. Why is that? I'm led by my emotions. Instead of relying on logic and reason, I find myself making quick impulsive choices, and basing my rational on how I feel.

I appreciate brute realism, rather than far-fetched, outlandish ideas and dreams. I can empathize with others, and I love considering the fact that each person you walk by has their own complete life, just like me.

I also have an appreciation for music, and music that will allow me have an out-of-body experience and take me away from real life, absorbed my the beat. I rarely contemplate, analyze, or reflect on a song or its lyrics the first time I play it, but rather let every sound register in my brain.

But I'm also led by Apollonian impulse. I prefer order, a neatness. Everything I own has it's own distinct spot. I'm punctual and on time.

I'm up to date on what's happening, and aware of my surroundings and current events. I don't let a drunken state take over me like Dionysian impulse would allow.

I'm a rule follower with a respect for order. Ever since I was little. I was the child who sat "criss-cross applesauce" on the carpet all of elementary school. And I've never dared to cheat on a test.

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